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Rob Goldstein, author of Fifty One Colors of Seduction joins Enterprise Radio. Rob’s book talks about falling into one of five sexual zones and discusses this more in detail on this episode.
Listen to interview with host Eric Dye & guest Rob Goldstein discuss the following:
- How did you come up with the title of your book and why did you start to write it?
- Describe exactly what the five zones are?
- What happens if a couple falls into 2 different zones? Is your book telling them they need to end the relationship if they aren’t sexually compatible?
- Why should people read your book?
- Do you offer workshops to couples to help them with their relationships?
- Can your book really help people have a healthy sex life?
- Is there another book in the making?
- Do you have anything specific that you want to say to your readers?
Duration: 12:09
About 51 Colors of Seduction: Sexcapades of a Committed Couple
“We all fall into one of five sexual zones. By using these zones, you can discover your sexual compatibility and take your sex life to a whole new level. Can a Zone 1 ever last with a Zone 5? Or are you both?
Zone 1: The Safety Zone
The Safety Zone is where most of us live. It is mundane, everyday sex that both partners are comfortable with and will only consider. This involves missionary style sex, with a few different positions thrown in. Some kissing, little foreplay, 10 minute or less lovemaking sessions, few sex toys.
Zone 2: The Fear Zone
The Fear Zone is where a lot of us live. We have fantasies that we are afraid to talk about and afraid to act out. While we could be coaxed into talking about them, chances are we would never try them.
Zone 3: The Temptation Zone
The Temptation Zone is where some of us venture. We live mainly in the Safety Zone alternating with the Fear Zone, but we are willing to talk about and possibly act out our fantasies with the right partner.
Zone 4: The Erotic Zone
The Erotic Zone is when the gloves come off. This is where both partners trust each other and go on a wild ride, exploring their fantasies and acting them out.
Zone 5: The Forbidden Zone
The Forbidden Zone is where you are open to considering even the most outrageous acts, things you have never done and things you would be even too afraid to speak out loud to yourself.”
About the Author
Seven years ago, after a long marriage, Rob began thinking about writing this book. You might be asking why it took so long. A year after his marriage ended, Rob found himself engaged to the love of his life. That tumultuous relationship kept him busy, but never culminated in marriage. Afterward, Rob began dating a woman that he seemed to be the most compatible with.
He realized after two of his long terms relationships ended, that compatibility in ”your fantasies and boundaries” are even more important as other compatibility factors. Rob’s ex-wife had absolutely no boundaries, which became a huge issue. She did not respect his boundaries, and he was not comfortable enough with some of her fantasies. It resulted in big problems and the ultimate demise of their marriage. With his ex-fiancé, their boundaries clashed again. But with his current girlfriend, he finally seemed to have to hit it right. They both share very similar lifestyles and consider themselves to both be black sheep. They are definitely Zone compatible.
Rob has always enjoyed treating his lover in a special way and creating an atmosphere of tantalizing love. He always tried to take care of his woman first, beginning each morning or ending each night with what became known as his “special Robby massage.” But when his ex-wife went off with a different guy several times it was hurtful. Rob wasn’t able to understand why and he lost trust. The intimacy between them faded and the relationship ended. His ex-fiancé had double standards, and did things that were inappropriate according to his boundaries, but would not indulge him in his fantasies.
After the hurt subsided, Rob realized that he had learned so much about relationships, intimacy, sex and boundaries. That is why he decided to complete this book.
The sexual escapades in this book refer to you and your mate. Rob wanted to show how two people, who are open to share and explore with each other as a couple, can be brought closer together, while fulfilling their needs and deepest desires.
Every escapade had an appropriate time and place, and they respected each other’s boundaries. Notice that Suzie the character in the book never kissed participated in oral sex or had sexual intercourse with another man. Rob saved that for them because that was the intimate part that drew them even closer together.
The key is to learn what Zone you are in, what your limits are, and how to reveal your deepest desires without alienating your partner.
The book is available on amazon.com. Visit www.51colorsofseduction.com for more info.
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Links: www.51colorsofseduction.com
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